The Importance of Space · Shaping Your World from the Inside Out
Our environment constantly influences our emotions, focus, and energy—yet we rarely stop considering how we can intentionally shape our spaces to support our needs.
SELFEMBODIMENT
Erin Stanley
5/8/20244 min read
Have you ever walked into a room and instantly felt at ease? Or, on the flip side, entered a space that made you feel tense, restless, or disconnected? Our environments constantly shape our thoughts, emotions, and even our ability to relax, focus, or connect. Yet, we often overlook the power of space and ambiance in our daily lives.
Ambiance is more than just aesthetics—it's an experience, a feeling, a language of the senses.
It's how a room breathes.
The energy a room holds, evokes emotions within whoever enters.
A cozy home, an inspiring workspace, a welcoming restaurant, or even a website! - the spaces we create can transform how we feel, think, and engage with the world.
So, whether you want a home that radiates warmth, a workplace that boosts inspiration, or a retreat space for rejuvenation, how we interact with our surroundings directly impacts our energy, creativity, and sense of safety.








I have always been intrigued by the power of our environment and how it shapes our moods and experiences. Every time we enter a room, we enter a world of sensory cues that influence us in ways we may not even realize. But what exactly is ambiance, and why does it matter?
At its core, ambiance is the atmosphere or feeling a space creates - similar to the essence we get from Archetypes. It is an idea manifested into the setting of a space; and the culmination of sensory elements—lighting, music, decor, scent, temperature, texture, and even the energy of the people within it - the energy of you - adds to a space. Ambiance is what washes over you when you step into any space, profoundly affecting how you feel and behave.
Ambiance is crucial because it sets the tone for any given situation. It can influence our mood, behavior, and overall well-being. In a restaurant, for example, the ambiance creates an environment conducive to relaxation, conversation, and enjoyment. Imagine the difference between a crowded, loud, brightly lit fast-food restaurant and a quiet, dimly lit, and cozy café. The proper lighting, music, and staff interactions can help portray the environment you would like to create. By learning about how space can be manipulated, you can cultivate a sense of ease through practical innovations or create tension to provoke change or movement. Crafting spaces in our own environment can create supporting spaces for our personal goals.
You see, Ambiance isn't just crucial in our external environment —it can have strong shifts in our perspective when we take these elements into our own bodies.
In our bodies, ambiance can influence whether we absorb something new and or bounce to a distraction because we suddenly become overwhelmed. ✋
A chaotic and noisy mind can have the same effects as a messy and distracting work space; leading to stress and distraction. A thoughtfully implemented practice, however, can boost intentional focus, out-of-the-box creativity, and REAL productivity.
So, how do we create the right ambiance for any given situation? It starts with what makes you feel safe + the energy you want to cultivate.
Do you want a warm, cozy 'Awe' feeling or do you want focused, productive educational liveliness? Do you want your self to feel inspired, fun, or somewhere in between? Take a moment and put on different hats and notice how they make you feel. Once you have a clear vision in this moment, you can experiment with different sensory elements to bring that vision to life. Maybe you want a warm cup of tea or something spicy? Maybe you want to light a candle and grab a blanket, change your shoes and go out for a walk , take a shower and sing for your pet. Even taking a moment to stop and be in your body, just for a moment and notice any tensions your holding onto in your muscles.
Check in with yourself and notice if you don't take a moment to check in - here is a good place to ask yourself what hold you back from taking a pause?
Ambiance is a deeply personal and subjective art—there's no universal formula. It requires curiosity, playfulness, and a willingness to experiment. But with practice, anyone can learn to create spaces that feel are just right.
The beauty of ambiance is that it can be woven into every aspect of daily life. So create a spaces that inspires you, environments that comfort you, and radiate an atmospheres that invigorates.
If your environment reflects your inner world, what does your space say about you today—and what would you like it to say?








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What You'll Discover:
🔹 The Foundations of Space & Ambiance – How your environment influences your emotions and mental state.
🔹 Safety in Space – Why feeling physically and emotionally safe is key to profound transformation.
🔹 Energy & Intention – How to cultivate the right energy in your space, whether for focus, relaxation, or creativity.
🔹 Sacredness & Softness – The role of practice, ease, and allowing in designing a space that holds you.
🔹 The Six Ways to Move Energy – Air, Movement, Sound, Color/Structure, Texture, and Intent—and how they shape our internal and external environments.
🔹 Creating for Yourself vs. Creating for Others – How to craft a space that reflects your inner self while making others feel welcomed and open.